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Oral Sex

Oral sex is more commonly known as sucking cock, giving/getting head, or giving/getting a blowjob. Most, though not all, gay guys enjoy the intimacy and pleasure that comes from sucking cock.

Receiving a blowjob

Receiving a blowjob is really pretty simple, just sit back and enjoy. That said, if you are thrusting into the other guy’s mouth, pay some attention to how much he is able to take. If you are thrusting too hard or too deep, it can be uncomfortable for both of you. Also, don’t be afraid to let the other guy know how much you are enjoying it. Groaning and telling him how good it feels can raise sexual excitement.

Receiving a blowjob carries no risk of getting HIV. However, you can get gonorrhea and Chlamydia when getting your cock sucked as these organisms can be present at the back of a guy’s throat. You can also get syphilis from a blowjob. You can prevent these infections by wearing a condom, but let’s face it, very few guys enjoy sucking on latex. The best thing is to go for regular STI testing, so if you do pick something up, you will find it and can get it treated.

Giving a blowjob

Most, though not all, gay guys enjoy sucking cock. While sliding his cock in and out of your mouth may seem quite simple, there are things you can do to make it feel even better. Some guys enjoy a lot of attention to the head of their dick. You can lick the head with your tongue, massage it with your lips, and move his dick in and out of your mouth just enough to cover the head. When you go down fully on his cock, raise your tongue slightly and make sure the head of his dick runs down the length of your tongue for extra pleasure. Other guys, particularly those who are uncircumcised, find the head of their dick is too sensitive for direct action. It may be better to keep the foreskin over the head of their cock and move the foreskin with your lips and tongue. You can also spend more time focusing on the shaft. Some guys like to deep-throat cock, pushing it as far back into their throat as it will go. Most likely though, this will make you gag. Lastly, remember when sucking cock, it needn’t be a continuous steady rhythm. Alternate licking and sucking, and the speed at which you suck. This can all enhance the pleasure and excitement.

When sucking cock, remember you can use your hands too. For example, wrap your hand around the shaft of his cock so that he slides through your hand while going in and out of your mouth. This has two effects. First, it limits how far into your mouth his cock will go. If you are prone to gaging, this may help. Second, it increases contact with his cock. Now his cock slides through your hand and into your mouth, increasing the amount of stimulation. Sometimes saliva is enough to keep things slick, but a little lube on your hand may help. You can also use your hands to stroke and massage his balls while sucking his cock. You might try wrapping your thumb and index finger around the base of his balls and pulling gently. Some guys like to have their balls played with while they get sucked, others don’t. So either ask or take your cues from his response.

Sucking cock carries a very low risk of HIV infection. You can lower that risk even further by asking your partner not to cum in your mouth, and making sure you maintain good oral and dental health. If you have any sores in your mouth, bleeding gums, or have had recent dental work, it is probably not a good time to suck cock. You should also wait several hours after flossing before going down on a guy. You can pick up gonorrhea, Chlamydia, and syphilis by sucking dick. Gonorrhea and Chlamydia at the back of the throat don’t cause any symptoms, so it is a good idea to go for regular STI testing. That way if you do pick something up, you will find it and can get it treated.